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September 18, 2010 Posted by | ARTICLES | Leave a comment

Hypnotism and Sex A Complete “How To” Guide To Getting Laid

Subtitled “How to Get Laid 365+ Times a Year!” – Hypnotism & Sex was written by Royle in his former stage name of Alex-Leroy and has been featured in practically every UK Daily & Sunday Newspaper, Numerous International Publications and as part of many magazines, TV or Radio show features!

August 28, 2010 Posted by | ARTICLES | Leave a comment

Get Free Gifts

Hey, welcome to my blog page.

I just wanted to let you know about a rather unique self help gifts giveaway event that I was invited to participate in. I thought you might like to get your gift in too, and grab some subscribers.

On top of that you can also grab a TON of ebooks and software from the self improvement niches at no cost to you at all – perks of being a contributor!

The event itself is expected to get me anywhere from a few hundred to a couple of thousand new subscribers within just a few days.

Given that the event will be promoted probably more than 1,000,000 existing list subscribers I am confident that this is one event that is worth spending a few minutes to check out.

The promoters, Carolyn Hansen and Dr. Joe Rubino have asked me to get the word out to anyone who would like to participate in this giveaway venture… To get your “By Invite Only” private JV details, just go here:

I should also point out that these guys appear to have gone to a lot of trouble to present an event that looks completely unique, so your prospects should really enjoy this one.

Also, they have a couple of great one time offers they will be presenting to the prospects – so you will be able to earn a very decent commission on the sales! Note that there are only a few days remaining to get involved.

This will be one of the BIG ones this year, so go check it out. You will be glad you did. Here’s that link again:

Cheers, Robert

P.S. Adding your gift to the event is very easy. It’s all dynamic. You set the text and gift image yourself it it is automatically and instantly added to the list of gifts..

June 18, 2010 Posted by | ARTICLES | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Boys Cleared of Rape – Body Language

It’s interesting to note that during the recent trial of the two 10yr old boys accused of raping an 8yr old girl that the court process was altered to accommodate such young children both accused and accuser under the age of normal Criminal Court Procedures.

The judge did not high up on his bench like normal and all the court staff wore civilian clothes and not the usual wigs and robes.

Whilst this may well be the proper thing to do with such young offenders it just goes show that the wigs and gowns, high benches were designed to intimidate under normal circumstances.

The high bench with the Royal Coat of Arms hanging behind them puts the judge above the accused a natural power base  big versus small.

The wigs and gowns being black give another sense of authority again putting the accused in the subordinate position.

Next time you’re in a Government building whether it be a court of law of not just check out all the power symbols meant to put you in no doubt that they are the authorities that matter.

Regards, Robert

May 24, 2010 Posted by | ARTICLES | , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Creating Effective and Efficient Relationships

Creating Effective and Efficient Relationships

Relationships of all kinds are often perceived as very delicate things, that require extra effort to maintain. However, a relationship can also be something that can provide security and can also be long lasting despite many trials.

Building an effective and lasting relationships is a necessity for several reasons. For example in a group or organization, the well being of the people depends on how efficient and effective that group or organization works.

The group or organization is also dependent on how the members work well with the management.

An ineffective group or organization can really be very frustrating. An effective group or organization can also ask so much on their members, that sometimes the members would be having no life outside the walls of the area where they work or sacrifice the other aspects of their life just to meet deadlines. For an organization or group with this kind of scenario, relationships can be stressed or suffer from breakdown.

People or other entities who depend on these groups or organization also suffer.

Society is defined as a web of relationships, which requires all parties to work and contribute their share in order to achieve a common goal. Having a relationship that is good, where cooperation and respect are manifested, can make society work better. In this way each member works for the good of the whole and towards achieving a common goal. This can only be attained with effective and efficient relationships.

Understanding the other parties’ feeling and position creates an effective and efficient relationship. The easiest method to understand what is important to another party is to ask them what they want and listen to what they have to say. When the other party realizes this, they would feel the importance given to them

Effective and efficient relationships require parties to openly express their feelings and positions on all matters pertinent on the relationship. Assuming that the other party understands our needs and give us when we need it without asking for it is not a good practice.

Respect is the key to relationship. In order to create a more effective relationship, parties should treat each other with respect. We can show respect just by listening to the other party and by trying sincerely to understand how they function. You can also show respect to other parties by confirming that they are doing everything they can.

The opposite of respect is quick forming of judgements based on unfounded facts and prejudice.

Respect is the very foundation for a great relationship. This also means respecting yourself and respecting others.

Another key area in forming an effective relationship is to tackle differences of the other party directly. Differences between parties or people are quite interesting. For example in a conversation where each party listens to the other party, you may observe that each is having two different perspectives.

Work towards a win-win solution for both parties.

This can be done when at least one party acknowledges that the relationship is important. That party would then exert more time, effort and energy to understand the other party’s needs and deal with it to get it out of the way. Should they fail, it is comforting for that party to know that they tried.

Effectively listening and no pre-judging. This is important if parties are to understand each other.

Informal discussions are conducive for parties. They bring out issues and concerns comfortably. They also feel more relaxed making them think more clearly.

Developing an atmosphere where the other party can express their feelings when they need to.

When parties fail to express whatever is on their mind or their feelings, it can get in the way of building an effective relationship.

Parties should be aware that certain things exist naturally but should be controlled in any dealings in any relationship. Human nature is one. Some of these things found in a relationship also include a history of stereotyping or mistrust, blaming the other person or party for a strained relationship, excluding the other party’s feelings when focusing on a task, no clear and defined objectives, roles and expectations of each party in a relationship is also unclear.

Relationships are important to anyone, addressing issues and problems right away is a must to further improve the relationship. As they say ‘No man is an Island’.

Best wishe, Robert

May 20, 2010 Posted by | ARTICLES | , , , , | Leave a comment

Happy As You Want to Be

Happy As You Want to Be

Almost everyone have heard the hit single ‘Don’t Worry, Be Happy’ by Bobby McFerrin. The song has a very catchy way of conveying its message of being happy to everyone. Bobby Mcferiin’s simple message surely made a lot of people by telling them not to worry.

Living a happy, resilient and optimistic life is wonderful, and is also good for your health. Being happy actually protects you from the stresses of life. Stress is linked to top causes of death such as heart disease, cancer and stroke.

One of the better things ever said is – ‘The only thing in life that will always remain the same is change’, and in our life we have the power to make the necessary changes if we want to. Even if we find ourselves in an unbearable situation we can always find solace in the knowledge that it too would change.

Social networks or relationships are essential to happiness. People are different, accept people for who or what they are, avoid clashes, constant arguments, and let go of all kinds of resentments. If arguments seem unavoidable still try and make an effort to understand the situation and you might just get along with well with

Happiness is actually found in everyone, increasing it is a way to make a life more wonderful and also more healthy.

To be happy is relatively easy, just decide to be a happy person. Abraham Lincoln observed that most people for most of the time can choose how happy or stressed, how relaxed or troubled, how bright or dull their outlook to be. The choice is simple really, choose to be happy.

There are several ways by which you can do this.

Being grateful is a great attitude. We have so much to be thankful for. Thank the taxi driver for bringing you home safely, thank the cook for a wonderful dinner and thank the guy who cleans your windows. Also thank the mailman for bringing you your mails, thank the policeman for making your place safe and thank God for being alive.

News is stressful. Get less of it. Some people just can’t start their day without their daily dose of news. Try and think about it, 99% of the news we hear or read is bad news. Starting the day with bad news does not seem to be a sensible thing to do.

A religious connection is also recommended. Being part of a religious group with its singing, sacraments, chanting, prayers and meditations foster inner peace.

Manage your time. Time is invaluable and too important to waste. Time management can be viewed as a list of rules that involves scheduling, setting goals, planning, creating lists of things to do and prioritizing. These are the core basics of time management that should be understood to develop an efficient personal time management skill. These basic skills can be fine tuned further to include the finer points of each skill that can give you that extra reserve to make the results you desire.

Laugh and laugh heartily everyday. Heard a good joke? Tell your friends or family about it. As they also say -‘Laughter is the best medicine’.

Express your feelings, affections, friendship and passion to people around you. They will most likely reciprocate your actions. Try not to keep pent up anger of frustrations, this is bad for your health. Instead find ways of expressing them in a way that will not cause more injury or hurt to anyone.

Working hard brings tremendous personal satisfaction. It gives a feeling of being competent in finishing our tasks. Accomplishments are necessary for all of us, they give us a sense of value. Work on things that you feel worthy of your time.

Learning is a joyful exercise. Try and learn something new everyday. Learning also makes us expand and broaden our horizons. And could also give us more opportunities in the future.

Run, jog, walk and do other things that your body was made for. Feel alive.

Avoid exposure to negative elements like loud noises, toxins and hazardous places.

These are the few simple things you can do everyday to be happy.

And always remember the quote from Abraham Lincoln, he says that, “Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.”

May 18, 2010 Posted by | ARTICLES | Leave a comment

Resell My Software

“Who Else Wants Start Their Own High Demand eBook Software Empire From Scratch, Without Any Programming Skills?!”

Have you ever considered starting your own profitable online business?


wondering How long does it take to make your first income online?

If your answer “yes” to either one of the above questions then please fasten your seat belt and put on your full attention. As you are about to embark on the online money making ride of your life starting in the next 5 minutes!

Is this some kind of Hype? How much investment do you need to make this thing work?
Are you just starting to learn making your first income online? Is this another bucket full of hope that can take you to the promise land?

Let us make it really simple, this is about making your first income online.
You need a “seed of hope” that this online business truly works!

How do you make your first $1000 income if you have never made your first $10 online?

This system, does not promise that you can make your first million dollar income overnight. That’s not what we aimed to be here. This system is to inspire you and other beginners in breaking the myth of making money online that is sounds too good to be true.

Nothing is Impossible!
The Limit is Only In Your Mind!

I’m not going to beat around the bush today because time is of the essence. In fact, I opted to skip the hype and long-winded sales page all together. The only thing you’ll see… is simply a GREAT offer! If you’re a webmaster – you need to project the most professional image possible and the easiest way to do that is by downloading the Hot Market Software Package right now….

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If you paid full price for any products here, get excited that you can buy the package and take advantage of the other products you’re getting at an insane value.

May 16, 2010 Posted by | ARTICLES | , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

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May 15, 2010 Posted by | ARTICLES | Leave a comment

10 Surprising Signs Someone Fancies You

10 surprising signs that they’re interested When someone fancies you, they don’t always show it in the way you’d expect. Miss the signals, and your chance has gone. Next time, look out for these surprising signs – and don’t let ‘em get away.

1. They don’t talk to you They’re so scared of looking foolish in front of you that they don’t risk it. You need to take charge. Start a conversation. Expect some nervous babble, but be encouraging and interested. Their confidence will grow and they’ll soon start to make sense.Potential Relationship

2. They tease you Schoolkids tease their crushes in the school playground, and none of us ever really outgrows the habit. Attack is the best form of defence, in love as in war. If someone you fancy teases you, don’t give them a slap; give them your phone number.

3. They hide from you As with the teasing and silent treatment, this one is a form of defence. If you can’t see them, you can’t see them fall on their face, blush until they burn, or humiliate themselves in random heartbreaking ways.

4. They don’t seem to remember you So, you had a brief drunken encounter six years ago, and it has faded from their memory. That’s what they want you to think. They want you to think that they’re far too busy and popular to recall it. In fact, the memory is etched onto their brain and lived out in filthy fantasies every single night.

5. They suggest splitting the bill on your first date If you’re a woman, you probably assume that he’d buy you dinner if he fancied you. If you’re a man, you assume that she’d let you pay if she fancied you. Wrong. When someone’s interested, they’re careful not to seem over-keen, or out to buy affection or sex, or – in the woman’s case – tight-fisted.

6. They push back their shoulders when they see you It’s not an obvious signal, but it’s a very common one. We respond subconsciously to an attractive person by improving our posture: men puff out their chests slightly, and women arch their backs.

7. They flirt with your friend Rather than be rejected by you, they’re seducing you by stealth. If they can impress your friend, your friend will spread the approving word to you. Then they can find out from your friend whether you’re interested.

8. Their friend flirts with you They’ve sent their mate on a mission to involve you in a group night out, where they will make their move. Classic strategy.

9. They babble nonsense at you The power of your attractiveness has short-circuited their brain. Chances are they’re dimly aware that their mouth is spouting nonsense, but it’s out of their control.

10. They ring you up to moan about a terrible date You think you’re in the Friend Zone, but the truth is that they want any excuse to phone you. What’s more, by whingeing

Courtesy of Yahoo Personals

For even more ways to find out if someone fancies you check out my videos – Secrets of Master Communicators

May 14, 2010 Posted by | ARTICLES | , , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Body Language Course – Watch the first ten minutes FREE

Hello everyone, just a quick note to let you all know I’ve uploaded some videos to Youtube from my “Secrets of Master Communicators” video training course.

Best wishes,


May 13, 2010 Posted by | ARTICLES | , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment